BDSM for me is just another way to love someone deeply. I don't believe you can make or change someone into understanding it, you either know it and accept it or you don't. No amount of coaxing someone onto this path is going to work, i've tried. For the vanilla people it's a little temporary excitment in the bedroom but for myself and the kinksters out there, it goes much deeper than that. Thats just the way I see it and from my own experience.

Here,I'm hoping to share some BDSM knowledge, stories, play toys and general chit chat that I think will be interesting.